Tuesday, December 22, 2009

If LOVE is enough?

I always ask myself is LOVE is enough? Is CONCERN or CARE enough in a relationship? I used to believe in that but LOVE from a concern will never be enough. To be LOVE mentally or physically and financially stable are also important element in a relationship.

You maybe in a relationship for a while and you may love each other deeply but what else is missing? What else are you looking for in a relationship? Trust? Respect? Tolerate? Understanding? I believe that you need to know how to please your partner both mentally or physically. However, it’s not just empty talk or promises but PLEASE them beyond what they have ever experience before.

Never expect for return, only expect for appreciate. No one can change their character for someone cos people will change anytime. Learn how to TOLERATE people’s character and accept who they really are. Then learn how to RESPECT and hold the TRUST to each other. That might be lived long term of life together. So when ever it is, CHERISH and APPRECIATE every moment in our life before to be regretted forever.