Can you accept when a bad incident happen on you?

*New hopes after a disastrous period* 

Most of the people are hope that things will be happened in good incidents. But what if bad incidents happen on us or even more worst? Can you accept it? What will you do? Will you lost your mind and suicide? Or stay away from other people and hide in a room alone without having a good meal? I doubt a lot of people has their own problem with different case.  

In our life, normally people is hard to accept when facing a problem. Ok, i don't want to say about other people's matter as for myself, i also hardly to accept it. I remember the most serious happened in my life was about love matter. I broke up with my last lover after i found out the truth within my expectation and i totally lost control while i over spent. Besides i never had a proper meal while having emotion, sad and depress. One day, i met my friends at somewhere in the shopping mall. They was shocked and said with unbelievable expression,"Gee... you looked slimmer than previously! Are you in slimming progress?". I smiled at them and said," Nope, just lived as usual as i do". Suppose this is a lie which i shouldn't pretend that my life is great. But my feeling tells me that everything is fine and it's not big deal at all! However, it's really difficult for being such a happy person in front of them.

Well it's very usual when a person act nothing happen and chic. But inside their heart, it feels like a nail has pinned and pulled out in sudden without preparation, then the blood will keep bleeding. People doesn't want to be failure and i know people is hardly to confront with delightful. Meanwhile, people will be suffer and struggle in depression of life. This is the part of hardest trial and everyone must confront at least more than once in a life time. That's why people wouldn't let it go and fear to get hurt again due to lost their faith.

Honestly, i've been studied and learnt to be forgiveness and how to let it go. How to accept when a bad incidents happen on me and take it as a part for a reason which it might be good for return in future. Although i don't know what's the reason that it make but one thing for sure that we are lucky and lived better than those who are disable people. After that incident happened, my friends was surprisingly that i looked brilliance and firm lately. (^_^) However, it's really take times to develop and move on with appreciation, nerve and gratefully. But i'm very sure that everything will be better than past if we take an easy step. (n_n) 

I believe life would be better if we could be patience for what we confront. Logically we wouldn't know when the rain will be stopping. When it stop, the sun will rise up and together shine on, we will see a wonderful of rainbow. Bring up your courage to challenge it and be an ordinary heart to confront it. You will feel that life is great as we lived to the best for our life. (^_^)