What’s the different between companion and commitment of relation? Does anyone know? Which one do you prefer? Is it people like to have companion during a single life? Well it’s an interesting topic to talk about.
I’ve found out some people prefer companion. Why? It’s really weird for those people who prefer like this kind of life. Maybe they like to have more freedom without any commitment such as no arguing, no complaining, no worries, no need to responsible and etc. But how long would they have this kind of life? Until they are satisfy to get a PERFECT life of partner? Hmm… but how long does it takes? If during a youth moment, people still can enjoy. But what about during certain age like after 30 years old? Does it worth to be for the rest of life? Hmm… nobody could give a correct answer cos there is always no answer in our life. Maybe some people are prefer to be single for life. But why?
As what I've known, most of guys wouldn't want to have commitment of relation. They said " I haven’t found a perfect woman until she suits my conditions…". " I have girl friend but I don't think she is the perfect one for me as both of us got something problem and we are still trying to fix it. Perhaps we could give a chance to try first. If we are match, I shall dump her...". When I heard about this issue, I felt disappointed and terrible. What is PERFECT woman? Do you think woman don’t have conditions made to choose a perfect man? Come on, this is such a wasting time! Whatever they said was excused and they are just like a kid, playing a non-stop of merry-go-round, round and round for fun forever until another person comes out to press stop button to end it. But when will be that person to show up to end it? Unfortunately, nobody knows.
This is what human’s life goes on. Every shopping mall and each shops have different kind of choices to make but no one would know what’s the best. So they have to search one by one. First, they have found was good quality and useful but they have to move on for second choice cos they thought maybe next one would be better than this. After that, they have found better than first one but they thought again, maybe third choice will much better than this. Then they moved on to the third choice and found out that, damn! This is the best! Unfortunately it already been taken by someone. End up they have to keep going to search until they wish to get the best of the best as long as better than previous. As the best thing has been taken already, limited time has left, they would just simply to choose whatever it is. They wouldn't want to turn back again as they knew it was too late and even embarrassed to ask. Sounds pity huh!
This lesson taught us when the chance and fate has come, try to grasp it first as it is only comes once. Nothing is perfect cos everyone has their own habit. I believe people can do unexpected best thing or surprise for someone they love most. Who knows! Full of surprises can touch a person of life and naturally will change to much better of relationship. Gee… so powerful huh! Love is miracle, right? However, self efficiency and be brave to accept people’s habit and character. Love without respect, responsible, share, tolerate and trust, it’s hard to have a happiness and balance of life. Don’t you think so?
